Use core::mem::offset_of!() macro (after moving to Rust 1.77.0)

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Derived from discussion here: #4492 (comment)
After we move to Rust 1.77.0 (the current latest is 1.76.0 at the time of writing), core::mem::offset_of!() macro seems to become stable finally!! Currently, we have our own macro called offset__of!(), but thanks to the stabilization, we might be able to remove it.