Add balancer meter fixes #4470

[EdColeman]

Adds two gauges that can be used to monitor balancing

• manager.balancer.balancing.total - snapshot of the number of current migrations being performed.
• manager.balancer.need.balancing.total - snapshot of the total number of migrations needed to balancing.

This fixes #4470

[EdColeman]

I confirmed that with uno instance configured to use a LoggingProvider, the meters appear in the manager metrics log:

METRICS: 2024-04-19T12:08:37,303, manager.balancer.balancing.total{host=localhost,instance.name=uno,port=9999,process.name=manager} value=0
METRICS: 2024-04-19T12:08:37,303, manager.balancer.need.balancing.total{host=localhost,instance.name=uno,port=9999,process.name=manager} value=0

[dlmarion]

I believe that the migrations variable in the Manager contains all of the in-flight migrations. The params.migrationsOut contains the tablets that need to be migrated from this call to the balancer. I think based on what I'm seeing here, it's double counting. I wonder if we just want the size of the migrations list as that will encompass newly added, newly removed, and migrations waiting to happen.

[dlmarion]

If you want to capture the newly added migrations, then it might make sense to capture the migration completions (which are in the TabletGroupWatcher) and cancellations (which happen in a couple places in the Manager).